Have you ever noticed how often we expect ourselves to be superhuman? We try to fit into a box of what society defines as perfect, and it’s exhausting trying to keep up. It’s no wonder we are all so stressed out. But here’s the good news: you don’t have to be a superwoman and do it all! In fact, there is power in being yourself rather than conforming to various standards. Being you requires understanding and embracing who you are…
I’ve never been more proud to be an Afro-Boho single mom. There’s a special type of bond that comes from knowing other moms who share my identity and experiences. When we come together, something amazing happens: we amplify each other’s strengths and encourage each other in ways that are hard to find elsewhere. In this blog post, I want to share my observations on what sisterhood has done for Afro-boho mothers like me—the real-life power of sisterhood and how its…
Introduction As February comes to a close, so does Black History Month. But that doesn’t mean the celebration has to end! In fact, I believe that every month is a chance to celebrate the African American experience and reflect on the progress that’s been made. Here are a few ideas for ways you can continue the Black History Month celebration with your child all year long. Incorporating Books & Literature One way to celebrate Black History Month with your child…
It’s no secret that Black women have always had each others’ backs. Whether it’s through thick and thin, good times or bad, we’ve always been there for one another. And I’m so grateful for that. My sisters have always had my back, and I know they always will. We’ve been through so much together, and I know that they’re the only ones who truly understand me. I can’t imagine my life without them. I hope my daughter will be as…
As a Black mother, one of my top priorities is ensuring that my daughter’s spirit is protected. I don’t take this responsibility lightly, and I’m constantly on the lookout for spaces where she can be her authentic self without feeling marginalized or invisible. So when it came time to find a kindergarten for my daughter, I had high expectations—and sadly, I’ve been far from impressed. It seems like every time I turn around, there’s another issue. Whether it’s a school…
Developing an Appreciation for the Environment Ever since my daughter was old enough to ride a horse, I’ve been taking her to the stables. It’s one of my favorite things to do, and I love watching her learn and grow as a rider. But I think the best thing about taking my daughter to the stables is seeing her develop an appreciation for the environment. She loves being outdoors, and she’s fascinated by the horses and all the different plants…